I decided to have the map the style I liked the maps were going to start getting expensive as I would need a professional to do it. Couple of people offered to help me out on the Wedding Annoucers forum and this is the map that Maeberha came up with. I'm waiting to see if the font can be changed and if not not to worry I'm going to write out instructions etc in my chosen font which I think is going to be Gabrielle free from http://www.dafont.com/ .